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Agar o'z vazifamni uddalay olsam,

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unda keyingi bir necha
daqiqa ichida

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sizlarga baxtning siri
nimada ekanligini ayta olaman.

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Shunda siz bugun oqshom
uyingizga qaytganingizda



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baxtliroq hayot kechirishni
boshlashingiz

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va uni boshqalarga ham

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ulashishingiz mumkin.



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Baxt to'g'risida nimalarni bilamiz?
Keling, suhbatni shundan boshlasak.

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Bu to'g'risida yuzlab
tadqiqotlar olib borilgan.

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Iqtisodchilar, sotsiologlar va psixologlar

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baxt tushunchasini o'rgangan.

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Oxirgi o'ttiz va qirq yilning o'zida bu
haqda yuzlab ilmiy ishlar olib borilgan.

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Deyarli barcha tadqiqot quyidagi
savoldan boshlaydi: kim baxtli?

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Amerika Qo'shma Shtatlari
aholisining muayyan bir qatlami

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juda baxtli ekanligi bizga 1970-
yillardan boshlab ma'lum.

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Anonim tarzda o'tkazilgan ishonchli
test va so'rovnomalardan ma'lumki,

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Amerikaliklarning uchdan bir qismi
o'zini juda baxtiyor deb hisoblaydi.

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Buning rost ekanligiga bizda
shubha qilishga asos yo'q.

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50%dan sal ko'prog'i esa o'zini
qisman baxtiyor deb hisoblaydi.

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Aholining 10-15 %i esa surunkali
asabiylashishga chalingan

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va o'zini baxtli deb hisoblamaydi.

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Aslida bu eng qiziq
masala emas.

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Eng qiziq masala quyidagi:
nima baxt olib keladi?

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Bizga buning ham javobi ma'lum.
U uch narsadan iborat.

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Baxt olib keladigan uch narsa.

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Bular genetika, katta hayotiy voqealar
va tanlovlardan iborat.

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Men sizlarga genetikadan boshlab, mana
shu 3 narsa to'g'risida aytib bermoqchiman.

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Bundan bir necha yil avval

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Minnesota universitetining
sotsiologlari tomonidan

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1930-yillarning o'rtasidan
to 1950-yilning o'rtasigacha

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tug'ilgan 75
egizak juftligi to'g'risida

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ajoyib ma'lumotlar
bazasi yaratilgan.

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Ular tug'ilganidan ajratilgan va boshqa-
boshqa oilalar tomonidan asrab olingan.

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Bu sotsiolog uchun
orzudek bir narsa.

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Xuddi davlat buni atayin
qilganga o'xshaydi.

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40 yoshga yetganda ularni
yana uchrashtirib,

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ularga shaxshiy xususiyatlar
to'g'risida test beriladi.

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Ulardan hayotlarida bo'lib o'tayotgan

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voqealar hamda o'z hayotlariga

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bo'lgan qarashlari
to'g'risida so'raladi.

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Bu jida qiziq,

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chunki ularning DNK kodlari bir xil.

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Ular turli muhitda o'sgan,

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demak, tabiatdan berilgan va tarbiya
orqali shakllangan

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xususiyatlarni statistika yo'li
orqali farqlashimiz mumkin.

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Nima aniqlashgan?

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Baxtiyorlikning 48%iga
genetika sababchi ekan.

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Shunigdek, ularning shaxshiy
xususiyatlari genetikaga

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biz o'ylaganimizdan ham

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ko'proq bog'liqligi ma'lum bo'ldi.

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Saylovda qanday ovoz berishingizning
qirq foizi genetikaga bog'liq.

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Qanday ibodat qilishingizning qirq
foizi ham genetikaga bog'liqdir.

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Demak, ba'zi bir narsalar ayon bo'lyapti.

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Siz hayotingizda doimo shodon
bo'lgan insonni bilasizmi?

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Yoki doimo shodon
bo'lgan hamkasbnichi?

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Gohida bu odamni g'ashiga tegadi.

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U insonning doimo shodon bo'lganidan
gohida hayron ham qolasiz.

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Ular nimalarni to'g'ri qilyapti ekan?
Ularning siri nimada?

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Ularning siri DNKsidadir.

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Siz mijg'ov odammisiz?
Siz xomush va asabiymisiz?

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Sizda ayb yo'q, bularga DNK
sababchi. Boshqacha qilib aytganda,

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ota-onangiz sababchi.

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Shunday ekan,
biz nima qilishimizning ahamiyati bormi?

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Javob ijobiy, chunki
yarmi genetikaga bog'liq bo'lsa,

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qolgan yarmiga
adashmasligimiz kerak.

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Demak, 48%i genetikaga bog'liq, lekin
boshqa tug'ma xususiyatlar ham mavjud.

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Muhim hisoblangan
boshqa tug'ma xususiyatlar.

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Ulardan eng qizig'i
bu jinsdir.

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Kim baxtliroq? Erkaklarmi yoki ayollar?
Javob: ayollar.

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Juda ko'p ilmiy tadqiqotlarga ko'ra,
ayollar erkanlardan baxtliroq ekan



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va har doim ham shunday bo'lib
kelgan.

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Xo'sh, bu yaxshi emas, yigitlar.

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Lekin buni men ham o'rganib chiqib,
aynan shu xulosaga kelganman.

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Men erkaklar va ayollarni oilaviy
holati bo'yicha taqqosladim.

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Xo'sh. Nimani aniqlaganimni bilasizmi?

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Turmushga chiqqan ayollar turmush
qurgan erkaklardan baxtliroq.

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Turmushga chiqmagan ayollar esa
bo'ydoq erkaklardan baxtliroq.

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Beva ayollar esa beva
erkaklardan ancha baxtliroq.

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Buning nimasi kulgili?

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Men...

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[kuladi]

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buni turmush o'rtog'imga aytsam,
u menga "rost gap", dedi.

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[kuladi]

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Umuman olganda, ayollar erkaklarga
nisbatan baxtliroqdir.

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Yana bitta qiziq jumboqqa qaraylik.

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Erkakning eng baxtsiz bo'lgandagi
o'rtacha yoshi necha?

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Men bu fenomen to'g'risida avval ham
eshitganman. Siz ham eshitgansiz.

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Ya'ni, bu erkakning
o'rta yosh tanazzuli, to'g'rimi?

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Sizningcha bu necha yoshda boshlanadi?

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-Yetmish. O'n yetti.

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-Yetmish. O'n yetti.
Hisobga kirmaydi,

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faqat balog'atga yetganlarni qaraymiz.

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Qirq besh.

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Qirq besh! Qirq besh.

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Bu qirq besh,
to'ppa to'g'ri.

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Qirq besh yosh erkakning eng baxtsiz
bo'lgandagi o'rtacha yoshidir.

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U quyidagi tarzda kechadi.

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Erkak hayotining
traektoriyasi qiziq

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va gohida biroz qayg'uli.

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Bilasizmi, yigirma va o'ttiz
yosh bo'lganingizda

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hayot retsepti
aslida oddiydir.

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Hayot katta avtoyolga o'xshaydi.

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Agar yigirma yoki
o'ttiz yoshlarda bo'lib

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oldinga intliaman desangiz,

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yaxshiroq hayotga erishaman desangiz,

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baxtliroq va muvaffaqiyatliroq
bo'lishni istasangiz, gazga uravering.

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Ko'proq pul, yaxshiroq kasb
va kasbiy ko'tarilishga

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harakat qilsangiz,
shuni o'zi kifoya.

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Muammo shundaki, yosh
45ga yetganda ko'pchilik

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ketayotgan katta yo'ldan
to'xtab, noto'g'ri yo'lda

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ketyapman deb o'ylaydi.

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Men bu tezyurar katta yo'ldan
ketishni istamayman,

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ammo to'xtay ham olmayman,
chunki uy to'lovlarim

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va ro'zg'or tashvishlarim bor.

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Bu qiyin masala.

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To'xtasam, meni urib yuborishadi,
halokatga uchrayman.

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To'xtasam, oqibati yaxshi bo'lmaydi.
Ko'pchilik shunday fikrlaydi.

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Keling, endi keyingi masalaga qaraylik.
Ular o'zi nimani istaydi?

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Ushbu o'xshatishni davom ettirsak,

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ular o'zlari
tanlagan boshqa bir

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yo'lda bo'lishni xohlaydilar.

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Ular undan ko'ra loy yo'lda,

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boshiga dubulg'a kiymasdan

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mototsiklda bo'lishni
xohlaydilar.

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Ular shuni istaydi.

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Xo'sh, mototsikldagi yigit kim o'zi?
Chunki baxt siri bu

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dubulg'a qiymagan mototsikchi
yigit bo'lishdir.

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Demak, uning kimligini bilmoqchiman.
Menga uning kimligini aytingchi.

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Men uning kimligini bilaman. U menman.

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Sababini sızlarga tushuntiraman.

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O'n to'qqiz yoshimda men
universitetdagi o'qishimni tashladim.

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Tashladim, haydaldim.
Ahamiyati yo'q.

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Musiqa chalish bilan
kun ko'ra boshladim.

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Men valtorna cholg'u asbobini chalardim.
Faqat shu ishni qilishni xohlardim.

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O'ttiz yoshga yetmasdan Barselona
Simfoniya orkestriga kelib qoldim.

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Juda ajoyib edi. Men musiqani
sevardim. Hozir ham sevaman.

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Bu eng yaxshi yozilgan musiqadir.

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Xuddi tushdek, to'g'rimi?

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Lekin men 45 yoshimdagi
o'zligimga bir nazar tashladim.

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Men [kelajakdan fol ochish uchun]
sehrli kristal sharga qaradim.

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Unda mendan 20, 30 yoshlar

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kattaroq bo'lgan, ya'ni 45
yoshlar chamasidagi

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uncha baxtli ko'rinmagan
hamkasblarimni ko'rdim.

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Ular spirtli ichimliklarga
ruju qo'ygan bo'lib,

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oilaviy ahvoli ham yaxshi emas edi,

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musiqani ham uncha
xush ko'rishmasdi.

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«Men ulardek bo'lishni
xohlamayman», deb o'zimga aytdim.

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Buni oldindan ko'rganim uchun
omadim chopdi va men reja tuzdim.

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Bu vaziyatdan chiqish yo'lini topdim.

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Yana universitetga qaytishga qaror qildim.

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Keyin dadamga telefon qildim.
«Dada, menda muhim yangilik bor», dedim.

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«Musiqani tashlamoqchiman», dedim.
«Yana universitetga qaytmoqchiman.

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Men o'qiyman,
bilmayman, balki adabiyot,

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yoki fizika, yoki sheriyat, yoki iqtisodiyot,
yoki boshqasi.

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Hammasi yaxshi bo'ladi.
Aqlimni ishlatmoqchiman».

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Shunda dadam:
«Nimalar deyapsan?», dedi.

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«Sen oila qurgan bo'lsang», dedi.
«Senda hammasi joyida.

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O'ttiz yoshga yaqinlashganda
hammasidan

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voz kechish bu o'ta
mas'uliyatsizlikdir. Nega?»

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Shunda men: «Dada, men baxtli emasman

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va bu turishda baxtli bo'lishimga
ishonmayman», deb aytdim.

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«Sening boshqalardan nima farqing bor?»,

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uzun tanaffusdan so'ng dedi u.

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[kulgi]

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Bugun men o'zim sevgan ishni qilyapman.

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Bugun men o'zimga mos ish bilan
mashg'ulman, deb hisoblayman.

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Bugungi vazifam baxtliroq hayotga qanday
erishish  to'g'risida sizlarga aytib berishdir.

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Bu qanday mo'jiza.

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Odamlar uchun bu yo'lni tasodifan
topishining o'zi kifoya emas.

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Biz uni maqsad qilib topishimiz zarur.

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Keling, yana tug'ma farqlarga qaytaylik.

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Genetika: 48%.

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Keyingi muhim narsa – hayotdagi katta voqealar.

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Baxtingiz bularga juda bog'liq
deb o'ylaysiz.

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Siz baxtiyor bo'lishni istaysiz.
Maqsadlaringizga intiling.

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Hayotda katta maqsadlaringiz bor
va siz

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tashvishlardan qochasiz, to'g'rimi?

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Siz har doim bu haqda o'ylaysiz.

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Agar universitetni yaxshi
baholar bilan tugatib,

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yaxshi ishga joylashsam,
baxtli bo'laman, to'g'rimi?

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Huquqshunoslik fakultetiga
o'qishga kirsam, baxtli bo'lardim.

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Agar shu qiz menga turmushga chiqsa,
men baxtli bo'lardim.

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Agar kasal bo'lmasam,
baxtsiz bo'lmayman, to'g'rimi?

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Agar baxtsiz hodisaga uchramasam,
men baxtliman.

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Biz shunday fikr yuritamiz.
Biz juda ham maqsadni ko'zlovchi jonzotlarmiz.

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Hayotning har bir nuqtasida
baxtimizning qancha qismi yaxshi

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yoki yomon bo'lgan katta
voqealarga bog'liq?

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Javob: 40%i.

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Bu katta raqam!

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Demak, sizning har bir daqiqada

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yutuqqa erishishga,

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omadsizlikdan qochishga urinishingiz

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albatta to'g'ri yo'ldir.

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Ammo bu xato.

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U 40%, lekin men sizlarga uning ketidan nima
uchun quvlamaslikni tushuntiraman.

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Sababi ikkita.

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Birinchidan, biz o'zimiz

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izlagan narsalarga, o'sha
katta maqsadlarga erishishga

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qurbimiz ko'pincha yetmaydi.

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Muhimrog'i esa, katta
narsalar uzoq davom etmaydi.

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O'sha orzu qilgan uy-joyga yetishsangiz,
yaxshi kayfiyatingiz qanchagacha cho'ziladi?

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Olti oy.

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Agar maoshingizni ikki baravarga oshirsam,
u kayfiyatingizni qanchongacha ko'taradi?

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6 oygacha xolos, undan ko'p emas.

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Nima qilishingizdan qat'i nazar,
hammasi o'tkinchi.

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Katta narsalar o'tkinchi,

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lekin ularga erishish uchun
to'lagan narx bir umrgadir.

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Shuning uchun katta
narsalarni orqasidan quvmang.

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Bu haqda bir ilmiy tadqiqot
alohida to'xtalib o'tgan.

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Bu men bilgan eng
qiziq ilmiy ishdir.

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U 1978 yilda yozilgan.

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U eski tadqiqot, lekin
hozirgacha ham mumtozdir.

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U ikki toifadagi kishilar:

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falajlangan va lotereya
yutgan odamlarni taqqoslaydi.

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Bu ikki toifadagi odamlarni
nima birlashtiradi?

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Muvozanatlaridagi
katta o'zgarish.

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Bingo.Yomon yoki yaxshi, to'g'rimi?

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Falajlangan odamlarni qarasak,

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tasodifidan  olti oy o'tgandan so'ng
ularning baxtlilik darajasi

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otatda kasallikdan avvalgi bo'lgan

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darajasiga deyarli qaytadi.

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Usbu tadqiqot shunday xulosaga kelgan.

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Butunlay emas.
Deyarli butunlay.

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Ko'ryapsizmi, qanday chidamlimiz.
Olti oydan keyin ham ular:

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«Qo'l va oyoqlarimni yana
boshqara olish va nogironlik

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kursisiga o'tirmaslik
uchun deyarli hamma

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narsaga tayyorman», deb aytsalarda,

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ularning baxtiyorligi
ruhiy bo'lgan

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boshqa kuchlarga bog'liqdir.

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Xo'sh. Bu tadqiqotning 1-xulosasi.

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2-toifadagilar esa lotereya g'oliblari.

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Bunisi avvalgisidan
ham qiziqroq.

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Lotereya yutganidan olti oydan keyin



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o'rtacha g'olibning baxtlilik darajasi
lotereya chiptasini

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sotib olgan kunidan
bir kun oldingi

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darajadan sal
pastroq bo'ladi.

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Aslida, lotereya sotib
olgandan keyin boshingizdan kechishi

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mumkin bo'lgan eng yaxshi narsa
bu yutuq chiqmasligidir.

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Nega? Buni ham bilamiz.

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Chunki ularning f'el-atvori
o'zgarib ketadi.

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Hayotdagi mayda-chuydalar
ularni xursand qilmaydi.

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Shu xafta oxirida nimadan
xursand bo'lishingizni o'ylab ko'ring.

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Balki bu yaqinlaringiz bilan vaqt o'tkazishdir.

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Balki bu sizni baxtli qiladigan insonlar
bilan oz bo'lsada qoniqish

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olib keladigan ishlarni bajarishdir.

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Sport o'yinlarini tomosha qilish.

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Ovqatlanish uchun biror joyga borish.

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Ya'ni, siz o'zingizni yaxshi his qiladigan
insonlar atrofida bo'lishni va ular bilan

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xushchaqchaqlashib, yaxshi
vaqt o'tkazishni istaysiz.

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Ma'lum bo'lishicha,
lotereya yutganlar

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bunday narsalardan mahrum.

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Ularning barcha sevimli
mashg'ulotlari ma'nosiz.

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Do'stlikka ham boshqacha qarashadi.

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Avval xursand qilgan mayda-chuydalar
ularni boshqa zavqlantirmaydi.

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Shuning uchun ular
yangi his-tuyg'u izlashadi.

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Rostini aytganda, agar
baxtli bo'lishni istasangiz,

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unda fikru-zikringizni
katta o'zgarishlar bilan egallab,

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vaqtingizni behuda o'tkazmang.

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Undan ko'ra o'sha
40%ga erishishga

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ko'maklashadigan odatlar
bilan muntazam

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ravishda shug'ullansangiz,
muvaffaqiyatga erishish

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va omadsizlikdan xalos

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bo'lish ehtimoli oshadi.
Xo'sh, bu hayot elementlari

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nimalardan iborat?
Bular so'nggi 12%ni tashkil etadi.

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Yodingizda tuting, 48%i genetika.

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40%i voqealar.
Sizda yana 12% qoldi.

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Bu so'nggi 12%
o'zingizga bog'liq.

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Agar shu 12%dan oqilona foydalansangiz,

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siz shu bilan birga 40%
ulushga erishish

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ehtimolini ham oshirasiz,
chunki bu muvaffaqiyat

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uchun eng qulay

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hayot tarzini ta'minlaydi.
Demak, nimalar shu 12%ni

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ta'minlashini bilishimiz zarur.
Bular 4 narsadan iborat.

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Ilmning qudrati shundadir.

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Siz bu yerdan o'zingizning
baxt portfelingizga

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investitsiya qilishga
tayyor bo'lib,

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bugunning o'zidayoq
baxtliroq bo'lasiz.

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Mana yaxshi yangilik.

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Oddiy, ommabop
va tushunarli.

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Usbu 4 narsa quyidagilardir:
e'tiqod, oila, jamoatchilik va ish.

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Bu sizning muhim to'rtligingiz.
Bu sizning baxt portfelingizdir.

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Boshqa narsalarga vaqtni behuda sarflamang,

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chunki unda

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siz to'gri yo'ldan
adashasiz.

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Oila, uzr, demoqchimanki,
e'tiqodning ahamiyati ravshan.

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U bir ichki hayot. Men e'tiqodingiz
qaysi biri bo'lishini aytmayapman.

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Balki ruhiy,
o'zga dunyodagi narsalar

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to'g'risida o'ylash va
ularni o'z hayotingizga

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tatbiq etishni
nazarda tutyapman.

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Oila! Mustahkam oilaviy
aloqalarga ega bo'lish.

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Bular bizdan uzoqlashib
ketmasligi kerak bo'lgan narsalardir.

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Jamoatchilik tushunchasi
bir muncha murakkabdir.

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Jamoatchilikning tarkibiy
qismlari bu muhim

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do'stona munosabatlarni
rivojlantirish,

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jamoangizga va boshqalarga
saxovatpesha bo'lishdir.

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Mana shular hayotingizda
jamoatchilikni bildiradi.

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Men vaqtimni e'tiqod, oila va jamoatchilik

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to'g'risida gapirib sarflamayman.

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Qolgan vaqtimni ishga
bag'ishlamochqiman,



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chunki unda paradoks bor.

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Ish juda ham muhim masala.

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Siz "Idora" teleserialini tomosha qilasiz.

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Siz Dilbertning karikaturalarini o'qigansiz, to'g'rimi?

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Ish zerikarli, to'g'rimi?

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Harqalay, kimlar uchun shunday.
Siz balki ishingizni yoqtirarsiz,

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lekin boshqalar, ehtimol,
u darajada emasdir.

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Amerikaliklarning necha foizi
o'z ishini yoqtiradi yoki sevadi?

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Amerikaliklarning necha foizi
o'z ishidan qanoatlanadi

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yoki juda qanoatlanadi?

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Shu to'g'risida bir o'lab ko'ring-a.
Kallangizda biror raqamni o'ylab ko'ring-chi.

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20-25% deb o'ylayapsiz.

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89%.

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Amerikaliklarning 89%i
o'z ishidan qoniqadi

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yoki juda qoniqadi.

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Qanday ajoyib.

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Boshqa hech qaysi mamlakat bu raqamga
yaqin kelgan emas. Nega? Nega?

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Chunki bu pulga bog'liqmi?

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Yo'q, u katta to'rtlikning biri emas.

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Men e'tiqod, oila, jamoatchilik,
ish va pul demadim.

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Yo'q. Pul ushbu ro'yxatda yo'q.

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Aslini olganda iqtisodchilar,
shu jumladan men ham,

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pulning baxtga
ta'sirini o'rganganmiz.

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Pul kambag'aldan

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quyi-o'rta tabaqagacha
bo'lgan aholining

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tarang ahvolini yengillashtirib,
baxt olib keladi.

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Keyin pulning ta'siri keskin
kamayadi.

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Ozroq baxt keltiradi,

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lekin yuqoru daromadli aholi qatlami

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qanoatlanishi uchun ko'p pul kerak bo'ladi.

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Xo'sh. Demak, pul asosiy narsa emas.
Gap boshqa narsada.

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45 yoshida omadi yurishganlardan
tashqari ishdan

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shuncha ko'p odamlarga
nima baxt olib keladi.

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Nima ekan u?

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Biz uning javobini qidirdik,
qidirdik, yana qidirdik va topdik.

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Biz buning javobini topdik.

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U erishilgan muvaffaqiyatdir.

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Bu o'z va o'zgalar hayotida
foydali ish bilan

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naf keltirishga
ishonishdan iborat.

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Erishilgan muvaffaqiyat haqiqatdan ham
mehnat orqali erishilgan baxtning kalitidir.

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Agar siz boshqalarga
yordamingiz tegayotgani va

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qilgan ishingiz orqali qiymat ,
yaratiyotganingizga ishonsangiz

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siz kim bo'lishingizning menga farqi yo'q.

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Chunki mehnati orqali
muvaffaqiyyatga erishganiga ishongan

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va o'z kasbidan mamnun bo'lgan odamlar,

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kim bo'lishidan qat'i nazar,
ular bir-biriga o'xshashdirlar.

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Ular universitetni yoki
maktabni tugatganmi

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yoki yo'q, yo'qori yoki
kam daromadlimi,

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shu sababli o'zlarini kam,

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o'rta miyona yoki yuqori
daromadli aholi toifasiga qo'shadilarmi,

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bularning hech qaysining
ahamiyati yo'q.

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Buning ahamiyati yo'q. Buning ahamiyati yo'q.

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Ular o'z hayotlarida foydali ish
bilan shug'ullanyapti,

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muvaffaqiyatiga loyiq deb

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o'ylashlari muhimdir.

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Agar bir biriga aynan
o'xshaydigan ikki kishinini solishtirsak,

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ular to'g'risidagi ma'lumot
Chikago Universitetining

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umumiy ijtimoiy so'rovnomasidan,
y'ani Qo'shma Shtatlarida

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hozirgi kundagi eng yaxshi
so'rovnomalar bazasidan olingan.

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Bir xil bo'lgan ikki kishi:

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yoshi, jinsi, irqi, dini,
ta'lim darajasi bir xil, -

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ikkalasi ham muvaffaqiyatga
erishganmiz, deb javob berib,

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lekin biri ikkinchisidan sakkiz
baravar ko'p daromad topsa ham,

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ikkalasining ham hayotdan
baxtliman deyish ehtimoli bir xil.

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Aqlga sig'maydigan narsa!
Baxt pulga sotilmaydi.

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Hamma gap erishilgan muvaffaqiyatdadir!

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Mototsikldagi yigit mana
shu narsaga ega.

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Unda shu narsa bor.

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U muvaffaqiyatga erishyapti.
Biz ham xuddi shuni istaymiz.

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Men o'sha yigitdek bo'lgim keladi. Nega?

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Men hayotni o'z shartlarim asosida qurishni
xohlayman. O'z hayotimni o'zim qurishni istayman.

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Mening hayotim korxonam bo'lishini istayman.

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Bu Amerika tadbirkorchiligining
negizidir.

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Bu Amerika orzusidir.

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Tadbirkorlik bu biznes
barpo etish emas.

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Tadbirkorlik o'z hayotingizni qurishdir.

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Agar shunday qilsangiz va
muvaffaqiyatga erishsangiz,

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unda siz o'z baxtingizni topasiz.

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Bu [davlat] asoschilari tomonidan
bizga qoldirilgan ahloqiy bitimdir.

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Ular bizga Yaratguvchi tomonidan
erkinlik va baxtga intilish

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kabi hayotning ajralmas huquqlari bilan

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ta'minlaganimiz to'g'risida gapirganlarida,

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